50 Marraige Pointers

Heads up for these guys!
Marriage only gives greedy lawyers a chance to rob you. Agree or Disagree? Well, that’s a warning to all couples or let say to those who plan to jump into unplanned marriage. Some say, “Don’t get married”! Why? Statistics shows that over 50% of marriages end in divorce these days. If you get married you run a better than even chance that this could happen to you. Yes, marriage isn’t what you think it is. But it depends… still, there are 50% of marriages are together and unbroken.

Many marriages fail today because the people involved do not know how to show love for one another since they were brought up in a loveless relationship. Follow the following 50 Marriage Pointers to avoid misunderstanding and problems:

1. Start each day with a kiss
2. Wear your wedding ring at all times
3. Date once a week
4. Accept differences
5. Be polite
6. Be gentle
7. Give gifts
8. Smile Often
9. Touch
10. Talk about dreams
11. Choose a song that can be “your song”
12. Give back ribs
13. Laugh together
14. Send a card for no reason
15. Do what your spouse wants before being asked
16. Listen
17. Encourage
18. Do it the other’s way
19. Know your mates needs
20. Fix his (or her) favorite breakfast
21. Compliment your partner twice a day
22. Call just to say “ I Love You”
23. Slow down
24. Hold Hands
25. Cuddle
26. Ask your spouse’s opinion
27. Show respect
28. Welcome each other’s home
29. Look for the best for your mate
30. Wink at each other
31. Celebrate birthdays in a big way
32. Apologize
33. Forgive
34. Set up a romantic get away
35. Ask “what can I do to make you happier?”
36. Be positive
37. Be kind
38. Be vulnerable
39. Respond quickly to your mate’s request
40. Talk about your love
41. Reminisce about your favorite time together
42. Treat his (her) relatives & friends with courtesy
43. Send flowers every Valentines Day And Anniversary
44. Admit when you are wrong
45. Be sensitive to your mate’s sexual desire
46. Pray for him (her) daily
47. Watch sunsets together
48. Say “I Love You” frequently
49. End each day with a hug
50. Seek outside help when you need it.

Following those pointers rewards you a happy marriage. Just keep in mind also that in marriage or in a relationship, private matters (i.e. sexual relationships and finances) should be kept private. Keep you separate personalities. Respect each other’s belief system. Remember that no two people think the exact same way. Make a decision about your future together and stick to it. Loyalty and honesty with each other is also has a big points in marriage. Above all, put GOD at the center of your married life.

***Many marriages fail today because the people involved do not know how to show love for one another since they were brought up in a loveless relationship.***

**Because of the power the government gives lawyers and judges the ability to steal your stuff, and the power to make your mates life miserable should you choose to do so, being married is like living with a loaded gun sitting on the kitchen table. And once someone picks that gun up and points it at the other person, your marriage is over and your life is ruined. Because of the court system, marriage is bad for your relationship.**