Christmas Love Tips from Lovedive

Pick a number
This romantic tip is real fun and truly gives the meaning of love. Tell your sweetheart to pick a number between 1-50 and then shower him/her with that number of kisses.


Compliments
Compliments go a long way. So pick up a thesaurus and describe your lover with the words that truly bring out the best in him/her. Use words like beautiful, handsome, angelic, divine, sublime, alluring, bewitching, stunning, gorgeous, exquisite, marvelous, magnificent, charming, enticing, fabulous etc. This is a great romance tip that works just perfect for both the sexes.

Short and Sweet

Fill some romance into your world with just tiny gestures to spark the magic of love. If you guys are living together, then scribble small messages and leave them in different places. Like if you leave for work earlier than your hubby then write a romantic message with soap on the bathroom mirror. It will be a great way to start your day.

The Magic of Love Spell: Love Mantra

Now, who among you tried this spell? Effective?

This is a very old and tested love spell. It is definitely to work for you also. For this spell take a piece of paper and write the sentence �XX loves XX�. For example your name is Tom and her name is Rosy. So you write �Tom loves Rosy�. Now we reverse this sentence completely letter by letter. So it will be �ysor sevol mot�. After this take a green pen and on a fresh piece of paper write the reversed sentence without any space; �ysorsevolmot�. Carry this paper with you for some days and seven times in the day read it aloud saying each letter individually like Y S O R S�.

Last but not the least when he or she falls in love with you, throw this paper in a lake or river.

Points System: Make a Woman Happy

Here's the truth: "Do something she likes and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted. You don't get any points for doing something she expects." -Source: across.co.nz

Simple Obligations
You'll get points if:

• you make the bed

Points are subtracted when:

• You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets
• You leave the toilet seat up

Social Engagements
Points are subtracted when:

• You stay for a while, then chat with a college drinking buddy

Her Birthday
You'll get points if:

• You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar

Points are subtracted when:

• You just take her out to dinner
• It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colors of your favorite team

Communication
You'll get points if:

• When she wants to talk, you listen, for over 30 minutes
• You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV

Points are subtracted when:
She realizes this is because you've fallen asleep


Be careful guys! Remember that your rule is to make the woman happy!

Making the person happy: Woman VS Man

Which of which is easy? Making the woman happy or making the man happy?

When making a woman happy, you guys just need to be:

• a friend
• a companion
• a lover
• very clean
• funny
• intelligent
• a good listener
• a strong
• true
• determined
• understanding
• compassionate

Plus points if you:

• give her compliments regularly
• love shopping
• be honest
• be very rich
• not stress her out
• not look at other girls
• give her lots of attention
• never forget occasion like birthdays & anniversaries

BUT! Making a man happy, there are only two things you need to consider :-) [... and some girls hate it. But it's a reality!]

• Show up naked
• Bring food

Kisses: types and tips

Feel free to try them... what? to whom? Well, it's up to you...

Here are some types of kisses :-)

• Wake Up Kiss - Before your partner awakes lean over and kiss their cheek and move over giving soft kisses until
  you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!
• Trickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favorite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while kissing.
• Tiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out
  of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.
• The Buzzing Kiss - Gently place your lips against your lover's neck , behind their ear. Now, send a shudder through their skin by gently growling and humming, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so. Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips.
• Teaser Kiss - Starting on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips, then move up the arms up to her hand, kiss her hand, then come back up her arm, to her face and then lightly kiss her lips till she wants a passionate kiss.
• Butterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.

Can you imagine what a weighty impact it leaves on your beloved after a stimulating and exciting kiss session? To kiss confidently, be confident. To be confident, you have to relax. It is best not to think about anything. Do not pay attention to the result. Enjoy the process but slowly!

Where to kiss your lover?

Can kiss make or break a couple’s relationship?

Shower you love with perfect kiss and right places... BUT where?

Here:
* Behind their ear.
* Tip of their nose.
* Back of their neck.
* Underside of their forearm.
* Curve of their waist.
* Palm of their hand.
* Inside their wrist.
* Under their chin.
* Their eyelids.
* Inside of their ankle.
* Their collar bone.
* Tips of their fingers.
* Their spine.
* Small of their back.
* Their tummy.
* Behind their knees.

Any additional tips? Any comment? Hahaha....

The Magic of Love Spell: Effective?

Do you believe on love spell? Me? I don’t know! Maybe, but how true is it? I would like to share one here and please let me know how you react on this:

White Candle Spell
This love spell is a promise to true love. Remember the spell doesn’t promise for love the way you will like but for the real feelings of the person. It may be more or less than your expectations.
Get a simple white candle. Don’t select a thin one as you have to inscribe it. Prepare a platform and decorate it with your and your lover’s favorite things. Get a rose thorn from a white rose bush and inscribe the words “All my love come to me" three times on the candle. Light and place the candle in the center of the platform. With full concentration watch the candle burn out visualizing your lover the whole time. When the candle has completely burned out completely, collect the wax and wrap it together with your love souvenirs and keep it in a safe place.

The result of this love spell is that you’ll receive your lover’s true love. And in the future if you no longer wish for romantic feelings from your love, simply dispose off the wax bundle.

Now, who among you tried this spell? Effective?

Marriage Vows| Wedding Vows

Soon to be married? Got problems of wedding vows, what to say to really make your wedding romantic, meaningful and unique? Actually, there are typically three different ways to exchange one’s vows. First, “Question and Answer” Vow. This is very traditional where the priest, judge, minister, etc. to ask question from the groom and the bride to which the responds is “I Do”.

Form:
[The priest, judge, minister, etc.]: "Do you, (husband’s Name/ wife’s Name), take (wife’s Name/ husband’s Name), to be your (wife/husband)?" (Groom/Bride Response) "I
do."
Second, “Responsive” Vows. This is also quite traditional as you always hear this in a wedding ceremony. The wedding officiant will say a certain sentences then each of the couple will say this:
"I, (Name), Take you, (Name), To be my (wife/husband); To have and to hold, From this day forward, For better, for worse, For richer, for poorer, In sickness and in health, To love and to cherish, 'Till death do us part." And it could be, "I, (Name), Take you, (Name), To be none other than yourself. I promise to stand by your side; To encourage you, and be open and honest with you; To laugh with you, and cry with you; To always love and honor you; Both freed and bound by our love, For as long as we both shall live."
Third, is what we called “Custom” Vow. It’s somehow a verbal love letter from each other. A groom/bride will express his/her feelings for the other, along with the promises to do or even not to do. Most of the couples write them our and just read them to the other during the ceremony.

Example:
Groom:
There was darkness for a long time and then there was light, and that light was you. Your love has given me wings, and our journey begins today. I pledge before this assembled company to be your husband from this day forward. Let us make of our two lives one life. I want you for today, tomorrow, and forever.
Bride:
I have dreamed my whole life of having someone as wonderful as you love me the way you do. I give myself to you as your wife, and I promise here to treasure for all of my days the love we celebrate today. Let us bring together our lives and find us a new each day.
Source: elegant vows

Other Example:
I, ____________, take you, ____________, as my friend and love, beside me and apart from me, in laughter and in tears, in conflict and tranquility, asking that you be no other than yourself, loving what I know of you, trusting what I do not know yet, in all the ways that life may find us.

The Groom places the Bride’s ring on her finger and says:____________, I give you this ring as a symbol of my vow, and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you, in the name of God.
Source: elegant vows

Hope these will help a lot to those who plan to get married! Congratulations in advance and Best Wishes!

For Men: Top Negative Body Language of Women

These are the top negative body language, signals as far as the game of flirting is concerned. Men try to sharpen your senses about these things.

- You lean towards her and she leans back from you.
- She starts turning away from you.
- She doesn't make eye contact with you.
- She folds her arms across her chest.
- She double-crosses her legs at the ankle too.
- She touches her nose often while she's with you.
- A limp or hanging hand can indicate boredom with you.
- When talking to you, she keeps glancing at other guys around her.
- She makes no effort to talk to you.
- She doesn't reply to any of your comments, doesn't answer your questions and doesn't ask you any questions. Unless she just isn't feeling good or is moody, this could indicate that she's not interested in you and that you are wasting your time.
- She just comes out and tells you to get lost, go away, go to hell, or worse. Then be assured that you are heading for the danger end. It will be better for you to leave that beauty and try looking out for a gorgeous one.

MOMENTS IN LIFE

There are moments in life when you miss someone
so much that you just want to pick them from
your dreams and hug them for real!

When the door of happiness closes, another opens;
but often times we look so long at the
closed door that we don't see the one,
which has been opened for us.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive.
Don't go for wealth; even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile,
because it takes only a smile to
make a dark day seem bright.
Find the one that makes your heart smile.

Dream what you want to dream;
go where you want to go;
be what you want to be,
because you have only one life
and one chance to do all the things
you want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet,
enough trials to make you strong,
enough sorrow to keep you human and
enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily
have the best of everything;
they just make the most of
everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always
be based on a forgotten past;
you can't go forward in life until
you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying
and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end,
you're the one who is smiling and everyone
around you is crying.

Please send this message to those people
who mean something to you (I JUST DID);
to those who have touched your life in one way or another;
to those who make you smile when you really need it;
to those who make you see the
brighter side of things when you are really down;
to those whose friendship you appreciate;
to those who are so meaningful in your life.

If you don't send it, don't worry,
nothing bad will happen to you;
you will just miss out on the opportunity
to brighten someone's day with this message!!!

Don't count the years-count the memories...........

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take;
but by the moments that take our breath away!

Stealing or Winning?

Sunday is all about resting, talking with my family members, watching DVD, playing with my nephew and sometimes, listening to music. What amazed me yesterday while lying in my own bed was that the text message of my long lost friend- Chris.

“Hi Honey. Kumusta? (“How are you?”) If you don’t mind, please help me how to win a mate’s girlfriend. I really like her and I don’t care if you call me traitor or what. But I think I’m in love with that girl. Friend, please give me some tips.”

Cases like this is very common, right? But my BIG question is- “Do you have any conscience? Can you win someone who’s your friend girlfriend/boyfriend?” Come to think of it.

Instead of winning someone who’s in a relationship, why not find someone who’s available and flirt with him or her. Yes, flirting. It’s another way of meeting potential mates and see if you’re compatible. Well, I could give you at least 8 flirting tips for now. Check this out guys!

For Women:
Remember these girls! Men are not used to women flirting with them. They would just love it IF woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.

Tip #1: Eye contact
Remember that the first contact made with a potentially interesting person is eye contact. It’s a way of sneaking in communication that has no words. In order for that eye contact to have desired impact, it must be delivered well, with good intentions and respect.

Tip #2: Treat men gently
Now, if someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts, too… just be nice. All other men are watching to see what you do. It’s a BIG turn off also when you laugh after he leaves or you show visual disapproval. Why? You’re cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you.

Tip #3: Smile
Give a guy a look. It could be all over from head to toe- and flash him your most winning smile.

Tip #4: Be approachable
Nobody likes an ice-queen. Force yourself to let your guard down and you’ll make yourself more approachable.

For men:
Remember these boys! To truly make your understanding with a woman successful, you need to recognize when she’s flirting with you. Women are masters of subtlety, so it’s your job to remain aware of every gesture, word, and every move she throws your way. Be attentive!

Tip #1: When a woman smiles at you
The smile is the last sign of openness and friendliness, provided that it’s genuine. If a woman shows her teeth and has that sparkle in her eye, then you can assume that she’s enjoying your company. Your only job is to keep her smiling by smiling back.

Tip #2: When a woman goes out of her way to get you to notice her
Why else would she be taking the long way? If a woman walks by your table on her way to washroom in a food shop/ coffee shop, but your table is located at the opposite of where she should go, then she’s probably interested. In addition to that, if she smiles at you on her way, then consider you job half done.

Tip #3: When a woman initiates a conversation
Taking the first step to initiate a connection with you is a sign that she’s interested. And when she tells you something like “ You remind me of someone I know,” which begs a response and successive talking, that’s a concrete sign.

Tip #4: When a woman pays you a compliment
If she throws one your way, you can pat yourself on the back. It implies that she’s attracted to you.

HAVE FUN! Flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone। Be generous and keep smiling!

50 Marraige Pointers

Heads up for these guys!
Marriage only gives greedy lawyers a chance to rob you. Agree or Disagree? Well, that’s a warning to all couples or let say to those who plan to jump into unplanned marriage. Some say, “Don’t get married”! Why? Statistics shows that over 50% of marriages end in divorce these days. If you get married you run a better than even chance that this could happen to you. Yes, marriage isn’t what you think it is. But it depends… still, there are 50% of marriages are together and unbroken.

Many marriages fail today because the people involved do not know how to show love for one another since they were brought up in a loveless relationship. Follow the following 50 Marriage Pointers to avoid misunderstanding and problems:

1. Start each day with a kiss
2. Wear your wedding ring at all times
3. Date once a week
4. Accept differences
5. Be polite
6. Be gentle
7. Give gifts
8. Smile Often
9. Touch
10. Talk about dreams
11. Choose a song that can be “your song”
12. Give back ribs
13. Laugh together
14. Send a card for no reason
15. Do what your spouse wants before being asked
16. Listen
17. Encourage
18. Do it the other’s way
19. Know your mates needs
20. Fix his (or her) favorite breakfast
21. Compliment your partner twice a day
22. Call just to say “ I Love You”
23. Slow down
24. Hold Hands
25. Cuddle
26. Ask your spouse’s opinion
27. Show respect
28. Welcome each other’s home
29. Look for the best for your mate
30. Wink at each other
31. Celebrate birthdays in a big way
32. Apologize
33. Forgive
34. Set up a romantic get away
35. Ask “what can I do to make you happier?”
36. Be positive
37. Be kind
38. Be vulnerable
39. Respond quickly to your mate’s request
40. Talk about your love
41. Reminisce about your favorite time together
42. Treat his (her) relatives & friends with courtesy
43. Send flowers every Valentines Day And Anniversary
44. Admit when you are wrong
45. Be sensitive to your mate’s sexual desire
46. Pray for him (her) daily
47. Watch sunsets together
48. Say “I Love You” frequently
49. End each day with a hug
50. Seek outside help when you need it.

Following those pointers rewards you a happy marriage. Just keep in mind also that in marriage or in a relationship, private matters (i.e. sexual relationships and finances) should be kept private. Keep you separate personalities. Respect each other’s belief system. Remember that no two people think the exact same way. Make a decision about your future together and stick to it. Loyalty and honesty with each other is also has a big points in marriage. Above all, put GOD at the center of your married life.

***Many marriages fail today because the people involved do not know how to show love for one another since they were brought up in a loveless relationship.***

**Because of the power the government gives lawyers and judges the ability to steal your stuff, and the power to make your mates life miserable should you choose to do so, being married is like living with a loaded gun sitting on the kitchen table. And once someone picks that gun up and points it at the other person, your marriage is over and your life is ruined. Because of the court system, marriage is bad for your relationship.**

Is that love or obesession?

Simple Tip:

When we don't want to let our bf/gf go away despite of knowing that the feelings of love are not present anymore, this is an obsession and NOT love. Letting go the person who doesn't love you anymore means LOVE.

In case like this, all we have to do is to really let the beloved go away if the love is out of the relationship anymore. We can't reason it into staying. Remember that we can't bribe the love or even coerce it. When time will come that it chooses to leave, then we really have to let go. We should be glad that it came for a moment in our life. Anyway, when we keep our heart open, it will surely come again and all we have to do is to wait....