Christmas Love Tips from Lovedive

Pick a number
This romantic tip is real fun and truly gives the meaning of love. Tell your sweetheart to pick a number between 1-50 and then shower him/her with that number of kisses.


Compliments
Compliments go a long way. So pick up a thesaurus and describe your lover with the words that truly bring out the best in him/her. Use words like beautiful, handsome, angelic, divine, sublime, alluring, bewitching, stunning, gorgeous, exquisite, marvelous, magnificent, charming, enticing, fabulous etc. This is a great romance tip that works just perfect for both the sexes.

Short and Sweet

Fill some romance into your world with just tiny gestures to spark the magic of love. If you guys are living together, then scribble small messages and leave them in different places. Like if you leave for work earlier than your hubby then write a romantic message with soap on the bathroom mirror. It will be a great way to start your day.

Friends vs Girlfriend: Relationship

One of the most challenging aspects of being in a relationship is figuring out how to balance your friends and girlfriend. Hard to balance and if you can’t handle the situation for there might lot of consequences, right? If you ignore your girlfriend one too many times, you'll be single before you know it, but your friends won't remain friends with you for very long if you constantly flake out on them.

Eventually, learning how to balance your friends and girlfriend is about time management and respect. The people who care about you deserve your time… the key is sorting out how to divide that time fairly between the important people in your life.

Tips:

Source: Askmen.com

Plan time with each
Your friends have always just called you up when they're in the mood to go out. Meanwhile, your girlfriend has started assuming that you'll be spending every weekend together. The problem is that both parties assume that you can just drop everything and hang out with them. In an effort to balance your friends and girlfriend, a little planning goes a long way… scheduling will you help you make the most of your time.

Respect sacred occasions
As you try to balance your friends and girlfriend, it's essential to acknowledge that some events are sacred -- some things you absolutely cannot ditch out on. For example, you pretty well have to spend New Year's with your girlfriend, even if your buddies are planning a kick-ass road trip to New York City while all she wants to do is attend a party at her BFF's. Similarly, you can't -- under any circumstances --- let your girlfriend talk you into blowing off sacred guy time, like your fantasy football draft or your annual camping trip. Recognize that some things are sacred and you'll be more likely to balance your friends and girlfriend.

Turn her into a wing-woman
One way to balance your friends and your girlfriend is to plan outings with both parties. For example, try taking your girlfriend with you when you go out to the club with the guys. Turning her into a wingwoman can be a great opportunity for friend-girlfriend bonding. Your girlfriend can actually be an asset for your friends in the pickup game. Single girls will feel more comfortable talking to your male friends if there's a woman in your group. Also, the sight of your friends talking comfortably with your cute girlfriend is sure to trigger a single girl's competitive nature.

Your girlfriend will enjoy these outings too because women can't resist playing matchmaker. She'll also be happy to lend a hand to your boys because, generally, girlfriends want your male friends to find girlfriends. When your friends start pairing up with girls, they're less threatening to her as you can start doing things like double-dates (instead of having them steal you away to prowl for women). Turning her into a wingwoman is a win-win situation.

Points System: Make a Woman Happy

Here's the truth: "Do something she likes and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted. You don't get any points for doing something she expects." -Source: across.co.nz

Simple Obligations
You'll get points if:

• you make the bed

Points are subtracted when:

• You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets
• You leave the toilet seat up

Social Engagements
Points are subtracted when:

• You stay for a while, then chat with a college drinking buddy

Her Birthday
You'll get points if:

• You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar

Points are subtracted when:

• You just take her out to dinner
• It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colors of your favorite team

Communication
You'll get points if:

• When she wants to talk, you listen, for over 30 minutes
• You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV

Points are subtracted when:
She realizes this is because you've fallen asleep


Be careful guys! Remember that your rule is to make the woman happy!

Kisses: types and tips

Feel free to try them... what? to whom? Well, it's up to you...

Here are some types of kisses :-)

• Wake Up Kiss - Before your partner awakes lean over and kiss their cheek and move over giving soft kisses until
  you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!
• Trickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favorite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while kissing.
• Tiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out
  of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.
• The Buzzing Kiss - Gently place your lips against your lover's neck , behind their ear. Now, send a shudder through their skin by gently growling and humming, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so. Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips.
• Teaser Kiss - Starting on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips, then move up the arms up to her hand, kiss her hand, then come back up her arm, to her face and then lightly kiss her lips till she wants a passionate kiss.
• Butterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.

Can you imagine what a weighty impact it leaves on your beloved after a stimulating and exciting kiss session? To kiss confidently, be confident. To be confident, you have to relax. It is best not to think about anything. Do not pay attention to the result. Enjoy the process but slowly!

Where to kiss your lover?

Can kiss make or break a couple’s relationship?

Shower you love with perfect kiss and right places... BUT where?

Here:
* Behind their ear.
* Tip of their nose.
* Back of their neck.
* Underside of their forearm.
* Curve of their waist.
* Palm of their hand.
* Inside their wrist.
* Under their chin.
* Their eyelids.
* Inside of their ankle.
* Their collar bone.
* Tips of their fingers.
* Their spine.
* Small of their back.
* Their tummy.
* Behind their knees.

Any additional tips? Any comment? Hahaha....

For Men: Top Negative Body Language of Women

These are the top negative body language, signals as far as the game of flirting is concerned. Men try to sharpen your senses about these things.

- You lean towards her and she leans back from you.
- She starts turning away from you.
- She doesn't make eye contact with you.
- She folds her arms across her chest.
- She double-crosses her legs at the ankle too.
- She touches her nose often while she's with you.
- A limp or hanging hand can indicate boredom with you.
- When talking to you, she keeps glancing at other guys around her.
- She makes no effort to talk to you.
- She doesn't reply to any of your comments, doesn't answer your questions and doesn't ask you any questions. Unless she just isn't feeling good or is moody, this could indicate that she's not interested in you and that you are wasting your time.
- She just comes out and tells you to get lost, go away, go to hell, or worse. Then be assured that you are heading for the danger end. It will be better for you to leave that beauty and try looking out for a gorgeous one.

Stealing or Winning?

Sunday is all about resting, talking with my family members, watching DVD, playing with my nephew and sometimes, listening to music. What amazed me yesterday while lying in my own bed was that the text message of my long lost friend- Chris.

“Hi Honey. Kumusta? (“How are you?”) If you don’t mind, please help me how to win a mate’s girlfriend. I really like her and I don’t care if you call me traitor or what. But I think I’m in love with that girl. Friend, please give me some tips.”

Cases like this is very common, right? But my BIG question is- “Do you have any conscience? Can you win someone who’s your friend girlfriend/boyfriend?” Come to think of it.

Instead of winning someone who’s in a relationship, why not find someone who’s available and flirt with him or her. Yes, flirting. It’s another way of meeting potential mates and see if you’re compatible. Well, I could give you at least 8 flirting tips for now. Check this out guys!

For Women:
Remember these girls! Men are not used to women flirting with them. They would just love it IF woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.

Tip #1: Eye contact
Remember that the first contact made with a potentially interesting person is eye contact. It’s a way of sneaking in communication that has no words. In order for that eye contact to have desired impact, it must be delivered well, with good intentions and respect.

Tip #2: Treat men gently
Now, if someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts, too… just be nice. All other men are watching to see what you do. It’s a BIG turn off also when you laugh after he leaves or you show visual disapproval. Why? You’re cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you.

Tip #3: Smile
Give a guy a look. It could be all over from head to toe- and flash him your most winning smile.

Tip #4: Be approachable
Nobody likes an ice-queen. Force yourself to let your guard down and you’ll make yourself more approachable.

For men:
Remember these boys! To truly make your understanding with a woman successful, you need to recognize when she’s flirting with you. Women are masters of subtlety, so it’s your job to remain aware of every gesture, word, and every move she throws your way. Be attentive!

Tip #1: When a woman smiles at you
The smile is the last sign of openness and friendliness, provided that it’s genuine. If a woman shows her teeth and has that sparkle in her eye, then you can assume that she’s enjoying your company. Your only job is to keep her smiling by smiling back.

Tip #2: When a woman goes out of her way to get you to notice her
Why else would she be taking the long way? If a woman walks by your table on her way to washroom in a food shop/ coffee shop, but your table is located at the opposite of where she should go, then she’s probably interested. In addition to that, if she smiles at you on her way, then consider you job half done.

Tip #3: When a woman initiates a conversation
Taking the first step to initiate a connection with you is a sign that she’s interested. And when she tells you something like “ You remind me of someone I know,” which begs a response and successive talking, that’s a concrete sign.

Tip #4: When a woman pays you a compliment
If she throws one your way, you can pat yourself on the back. It implies that she’s attracted to you.

HAVE FUN! Flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone। Be generous and keep smiling!