Points System: Make a Woman Happy

Here's the truth: "Do something she likes and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted. You don't get any points for doing something she expects." -Source: across.co.nz

Simple Obligations
You'll get points if:

• you make the bed

Points are subtracted when:

• You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets
• You leave the toilet seat up

Social Engagements
Points are subtracted when:

• You stay for a while, then chat with a college drinking buddy

Her Birthday
You'll get points if:

• You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar

Points are subtracted when:

• You just take her out to dinner
• It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colors of your favorite team

Communication
You'll get points if:

• When she wants to talk, you listen, for over 30 minutes
• You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV

Points are subtracted when:
She realizes this is because you've fallen asleep


Be careful guys! Remember that your rule is to make the woman happy!

Making the person happy: Woman VS Man

Which of which is easy? Making the woman happy or making the man happy?

When making a woman happy, you guys just need to be:

• a friend
• a companion
• a lover
• very clean
• funny
• intelligent
• a good listener
• a strong
• true
• determined
• understanding
• compassionate

Plus points if you:

• give her compliments regularly
• love shopping
• be honest
• be very rich
• not stress her out
• not look at other girls
• give her lots of attention
• never forget occasion like birthdays & anniversaries

BUT! Making a man happy, there are only two things you need to consider :-) [... and some girls hate it. But it's a reality!]

• Show up naked
• Bring food

Chris Daughtry: Home

I'm staring out into the night,
Trying to hide the pain.
I'm going to the place where love
And feeling good don't ever cost a thing.
And the pain you feel's a different kind of pain.

I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I'm not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old
So I'm going home.
Well I'm going home.

The miles are getting longer, it seems,
The closer I get to you.
I've not always been the best man or friend for you.
But your love, remains true.
And I don't know why.
You always seem to give me another try.

So I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,

And where your love has always been enough for me.
I'm not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old.

Be careful what you wish for,
'Cause you just might get it all.
You just might get it all,
And then some you don't want.
Be careful what you wish for,
'Cause you just might get it all.
You just might get it all, yeah.

Oh, well I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I'm not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old.
I said these places and these faces are getting old.
So I'm going home.
I'm going home.

Happy Birthday my Love!

Happy birthday to my love!
A sea around my heart:
Part shelter, part enduring word,
Part mirror of my art.
You are the calm that drains my rage,
Bliss upon my shores,
Immensity immutable,
Rush that life restores.
To you I wish to be a welcome
Harbor for your ocean,
Destiny and origin,
Aim of your affection,
Yearning of your motion.

Missing You

Sometimes, when you miss someone you can't deny to your own self that you're sad and that you want to go next to him/her... Even myself right now, i can feel the saddest part of my life while missing my guy! This is for you Bev,

Have you ever bothered to realize
how much you mean to me?
I care so much for you inside
and miss you so deeply.

My mind is always curious about
the way things might have been.
As days go by and time goes by,
I look back once again.

All the time I held you in my arms,
I had the whole world right there.
There you were, comforting me with
all of your charms.

Every little kiss from you
was like a dream come true.
This love that I have inside my heart,
it all belonged to you!

It's funny, all those little things
I never thought I'd miss,
Like all those conversations we had,
or the first time we kissed.

I guess that what I'm trying to say,
is I miss and love you more each day!
It hurts me not to see you,
or not to know if you're ok.

I want you to understand
that I loved you from the start.
And I want you to know,
no matter how many miles
we may be apart,
you'll always hold a special place
in my heart.

Missing Quotes

Did you miss someone? Express your thoughts and send your love to them... tell them that you miss them and you can't live your life without them...

• "It's true we don't know what we've got until its gone, but we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives."
• "I did three things today; miss you, miss you, and miss you."
• "Each time I miss you, a star falls down from the sky. So, if you looked up at the sky and found it dark with no stars, it is all your fault. You made me miss you too much!"
• “Cause I love you and I miss you, hearing your voice is the closest thing to touching you…”"
• "You may be out of my sight... but never out of my mind... I Miss You!"
• "I am waiting and hoping and wishing for the time, when we can be together again! I Miss You!"
• "A day without you is like a day without sunshine... I Miss you..."
• "When I think of you I get this feeling that I want to see you. I miss you."
• "When I Miss You... I just close my eyes & I am with you!"

Kisses: types and tips

Feel free to try them... what? to whom? Well, it's up to you...

Here are some types of kisses :-)

• Wake Up Kiss - Before your partner awakes lean over and kiss their cheek and move over giving soft kisses until
  you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!
• Trickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favorite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while kissing.
• Tiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out
  of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.
• The Buzzing Kiss - Gently place your lips against your lover's neck , behind their ear. Now, send a shudder through their skin by gently growling and humming, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so. Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips.
• Teaser Kiss - Starting on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips, then move up the arms up to her hand, kiss her hand, then come back up her arm, to her face and then lightly kiss her lips till she wants a passionate kiss.
• Butterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.

Can you imagine what a weighty impact it leaves on your beloved after a stimulating and exciting kiss session? To kiss confidently, be confident. To be confident, you have to relax. It is best not to think about anything. Do not pay attention to the result. Enjoy the process but slowly!

Scared to love... you?

Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness, according to Holmes. Agree? How about if you’re scared… scared of love, scared of loving someone? Does it mean that you’re not giving yourself a chance to enter the gate of happiness and that you will be forever sad?

What if you don’t have any guts to court someone or don’t have guts to accept someone? What if, you’re afraid that the girl might ignore you or afraid because there might be lots of expectations?

Questions remain a question but here’s the thoughts going through your head as you’re falling in love…

You push the hair out of my face,
And place your forehead on mine,
and you stare deep into my eyes,
And there is a pause in time.
You take my hand in yours,
And rub it with your thumb,
And when I try to say the words,
I find that I am dumb.

I want to tell you how I feel,
And have you tell me back,
But I can't get the words out,
As though it's confidence I lack,
But you know it could be certainty,
Maybe you're not the one for me,
So how come you're the only one,
Who makes me want to just be,

I love when you smile at me,
When you call me just to hear my voice,
When you tell me that I am beautiful,
So why am I unsure of my choice?

Could it be I'm scared to love you,
Scared to commit to just one,
Because it feels as though my heart is fighting,
Between loving you ands having fun!

By Poppy Fields 2005

Where to kiss your lover?

Can kiss make or break a couple’s relationship?

Shower you love with perfect kiss and right places... BUT where?

Here:
* Behind their ear.
* Tip of their nose.
* Back of their neck.
* Underside of their forearm.
* Curve of their waist.
* Palm of their hand.
* Inside their wrist.
* Under their chin.
* Their eyelids.
* Inside of their ankle.
* Their collar bone.
* Tips of their fingers.
* Their spine.
* Small of their back.
* Their tummy.
* Behind their knees.

Any additional tips? Any comment? Hahaha....

Love: Just a little thing

No matter what happens, when you’re in a relationship, you should at least try to work for it. You should not take it for granted. When problems come, always talk to your partner and discuss. That’s the only way to understand things. Remember that in every situation, it is a journey for two (you and your lover). You should both plan and settle things out.

Here’s a poem by anonymous entitled: A Little Thing Called Love

When you questioned love, why love exist… why love just come and go… then it’s your chance now to pause for a while and reflect. Or simply just don’t question it. It’s been part of living.

Read this:

Love is a many splendor thing, they say,
And I believe it when you looked my way,
Out of the blue, things seemed to happen
By chance or destiny, is the question.

Living my life so long, without knowing your existence,
Then came a day we felt each others presence,
Guess what's meant to be will always find a way,
Love creeps into hearts and decides to stay.

A love so exquisite, yet so intricate,
In a world of only "you and I"
A love we can't even demonstrate,
A secret we have to keep for life.

I love you, honey, and its from my heart,
I hope you know that you’re no beggar from the start,
You make me fly without wings,
You make my heart wants to sing.

Every moment I spent with you,
Is every one of my dreams coming true?
More than words, I want to show you how I feel,
Someday, some place, sometime, I will.

Love is a journey for two,
Step by step, me and you,
The future we can't see,
Let love lead the way for you and me.

Great Old Poems: 1910's - 1980's

I usually featured known and common quotes; some were new and written by unknown composer. Just now I think of those poem collection that were composed in 1910’s, 1920’s, 1930’s and even in 1950’s. Interesting, right? How about poems during 1840’s? Unbelievable, isn’t it? I browsed one site that featured oldies poem, that’s why I’ll share selected poems for you…

1841 Poem
To The Sun-Dial
UNDER the Window of the Hall of the House
of Representatives of the United States

Thou silent herald of Time's silent flight!
Say, could'st thou speak, what warning voice were thine?
Shade, who canst only show how others shine!
Dark, sullen witness of resplendent light
In day's broad glare, and when the noontide bright
Of laughing fortune sheds the ray divine,
Thy ready favors cheer us--but decline
The clouds of morning and the gloom of night.
Yet are thy counsels faithful, just, and wise;
They bid us seize the moments as they pass--
Snatch the retrieveless sunbeam as it flies,
Nor lose one sand of life's revolving glass--
Aspiring still, with energy sublime,
By virtuous deeds to give eternity to Time.
John Quincy Adams

1920’s Poem
Goodbye!

COME, thrust your hands in the warm earth
And feel her strength through all your veins;
Breathe her full odors, taste her mouth,
Which laughs away imagined pains;
Touch her life's womb, yet know
This substance makes your grave also.

Shrink not; your flesh is no more sweet
Than flowers which daily blow and die;
Nor are your mein and dress so neat,
Nor half so pure your lucid eye;
And, yet, by flowers and earth I swear
You're neat and pure and sweet and fair.
Richard Aldington

1830’s Poem
Memory

MY mind lets go a thousand things,
Like dates of wars and deaths of kings,
And yet recalls the very hour--
'Twas noon by yonder village tower,
And on the last blue noon in May--
The wind came briskly up this way,
Crisping the brook beside the road;
Then, pausing here, set down its load
Of pine-scents, and shook listlessly
Two petals from that wild-rose tree.
Thomas Bailey Aldrich

Lost Love, Lost Love Quotes

All of us are falling in love, and sometimes or most often we’re falling out of love or suffering in love. Love quotes will help you to express your deepest feelings and thoughts, during those times when words just refuse to flow out of you. Here are some:

Lost Love Quotes

• The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost. -G. K. Chesterton
• It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all. -Samuel Butler
• The hottest love has the coldest end. -Socrates
• I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken -- and I'd rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived. -Margaret Mitchell
• "You wondered how you’d make it through. I wondered what was wrong with you. Because how could you give your love to someone else, yet share your dreams with me? Sometimes the only thing you’re looking for, is the one thing you can’t see." - Vanessa Williams
• "If you live to be 100, I want to live to be 100 minus one day, so I never have to live without you." - Winnie the Pooh
• "Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go." - Herman Hesse

You may be facing difficulties in your relationship. You just had a big fight with your guy or girl, and you're at a loss of what to do. You just broke up with your loved one. You're thinking about whether to let him or her go and end the relationship. No matter what happens, just consider that life's like that. You just have to move forward and try to open your heart... it will surely come again.

The Magic of Love Spell: Effective?

Do you believe on love spell? Me? I don’t know! Maybe, but how true is it? I would like to share one here and please let me know how you react on this:

White Candle Spell
This love spell is a promise to true love. Remember the spell doesn’t promise for love the way you will like but for the real feelings of the person. It may be more or less than your expectations.
Get a simple white candle. Don’t select a thin one as you have to inscribe it. Prepare a platform and decorate it with your and your lover’s favorite things. Get a rose thorn from a white rose bush and inscribe the words “All my love come to me" three times on the candle. Light and place the candle in the center of the platform. With full concentration watch the candle burn out visualizing your lover the whole time. When the candle has completely burned out completely, collect the wax and wrap it together with your love souvenirs and keep it in a safe place.

The result of this love spell is that you’ll receive your lover’s true love. And in the future if you no longer wish for romantic feelings from your love, simply dispose off the wax bundle.

Now, who among you tried this spell? Effective?

I Promise

Love is in the air... Marriage love poems is here! To express true meaning of love romantically and unique! Here's one example of marriage love poems. It signifies, promises.

I promise to give you the best of myself
and to ask of you no more than you can give.
I promise to respect you as your own person
and to realize that your interests, desires and needs
are no less important than my own. I promise to share with you my time and my attention
and to bring joy, strength and imagination to our relationship.
I promise to keep myself open to you
, to let you see through the window of my world
into my innermost fears and feelings, secrets and dreams. I promise to grow along with you,
to be willing to face changes in order to keep
our relationship alive and exciting.
I promise to love you in good times and bad,
with all I have to give and all I feel inside
in the only way I know how,
completely and forever.
by: Dorothy R. Colgan

Marriage Vows| Wedding Vows

Soon to be married? Got problems of wedding vows, what to say to really make your wedding romantic, meaningful and unique? Actually, there are typically three different ways to exchange one’s vows. First, “Question and Answer” Vow. This is very traditional where the priest, judge, minister, etc. to ask question from the groom and the bride to which the responds is “I Do”.

Form:
[The priest, judge, minister, etc.]: "Do you, (husband’s Name/ wife’s Name), take (wife’s Name/ husband’s Name), to be your (wife/husband)?" (Groom/Bride Response) "I
do."
Second, “Responsive” Vows. This is also quite traditional as you always hear this in a wedding ceremony. The wedding officiant will say a certain sentences then each of the couple will say this:
"I, (Name), Take you, (Name), To be my (wife/husband); To have and to hold, From this day forward, For better, for worse, For richer, for poorer, In sickness and in health, To love and to cherish, 'Till death do us part." And it could be, "I, (Name), Take you, (Name), To be none other than yourself. I promise to stand by your side; To encourage you, and be open and honest with you; To laugh with you, and cry with you; To always love and honor you; Both freed and bound by our love, For as long as we both shall live."
Third, is what we called “Custom” Vow. It’s somehow a verbal love letter from each other. A groom/bride will express his/her feelings for the other, along with the promises to do or even not to do. Most of the couples write them our and just read them to the other during the ceremony.

Example:
Groom:
There was darkness for a long time and then there was light, and that light was you. Your love has given me wings, and our journey begins today. I pledge before this assembled company to be your husband from this day forward. Let us make of our two lives one life. I want you for today, tomorrow, and forever.
Bride:
I have dreamed my whole life of having someone as wonderful as you love me the way you do. I give myself to you as your wife, and I promise here to treasure for all of my days the love we celebrate today. Let us bring together our lives and find us a new each day.
Source: elegant vows

Other Example:
I, ____________, take you, ____________, as my friend and love, beside me and apart from me, in laughter and in tears, in conflict and tranquility, asking that you be no other than yourself, loving what I know of you, trusting what I do not know yet, in all the ways that life may find us.

The Groom places the Bride’s ring on her finger and says:____________, I give you this ring as a symbol of my vow, and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you, in the name of God.
Source: elegant vows

Hope these will help a lot to those who plan to get married! Congratulations in advance and Best Wishes!